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hi im jenny :)
i go to highschool && and im going to be a somphmore.
i love my friends more than anything &&
i have gone through alot these past couple of years.
my parents got divorced when i was 5 && my dad is homosexual.
i dont really get along with my family
&&
i have had really bad dating/relationship problems. so i know how most of you feel.
i have really learned alot and hope to learn more.
highschool is really what people say it is DRAMA.
people really do set out to hurt you and bring you down, but that's were i would really like to help. haha
so if you are having friend, family, or GUY problems just feel free to ask me anything.
i probably know how you feel and i hope i can help you. LOVEEE YOU :)
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when having sex, if the girl gets really wet, really easily it's most likely going to be more enjoyable, more easily to get in right?

and does that mean you don't have to use lube? (link)
i have only had sex once and yeah i get reallly wet usuallly, so yeah no lube it willll be fine!


Does anyone know of any teen sites that are for texting and meeting people your age?? (Like 14-16)

(link)
spinthebottle.com


Okay so for the past week i've been dating this guy. We havent hung out yet, weve only been texting, and talking on the phone. But he always sent me texts that were cute and made me smile. Starting this sunday, he was being very distant, and either responded with 2 words, or didnt respond at all, OR took 4 or 5 hours to respond. Hes been doing it for a long time now and i dont know whats up.
do you? (link)
guys need to see you once in a while to stay interested. so i suggest hangingout.. it would be a real good idea, and this could definatley save your relationship.


Me and my now ex, broke up yesterday, because he told me he was in love with another girl.. And that hes been seeing her for a week and a half now, but he said he didnt do anything to her, yet.. I still love him, even though he doesnt feel the same anymore.. We have been together for now 3years.. I dont know what happened.. I miss him badly.. I have been so depressed this past day. Its really upsetting seeing him with another girl.. I was so cut when he told me.. I had tears in my eyes.. I want to talk to him badly.. But i just cant face him right now.. Its too hard, and painful.. I want him, i need him, i love him.. I just dont know what i would do without him.. Cause we've been talking about having a family together, and getting married next year and stuff.. But then this girl showed up, and he fell in love with her. Just please help me, i dont know what to do anymore. He was my life, he was the reason why i woke up every morning, and he was the reason for my smiles. I just wish, he would understand.. But he doesn't.. (link)
you know what you seem like a very strong girl. i am just like you..you get attached and then you get screwed over and feel like you have no reason to live. your mood and life depends on how the boy you love decides to treat you. you depend on others for your desicions and attitude. i am and have been like you so know you are not alone. honestly i don't know exactly the right thing totell you but i can try. you love this boy right? well first tell him how you feel..obviously everyone will tell you that, and it's good advice but your going to need to know soemthing more also. no matter what you can not let him see you fall, and what i mean by fall is do not show any sensitivity if he rejects you. because you need to know right now that everything happens for a reason and people are not in your life right now for a reason. you will find another love, no maybe not like him but you will find someone BETTER than him. but yes everyone has a breaking point so do not hold anything in let it all out. do not let yourself get engulfed in this situation this gives you a chance to mend old friendships and spend time with family. be optomistic this is a start of something new..something great. TRUST ME PLEASE. stay strong and have some faith girl.
ps. listen to music and read quotes sounds dumb but i always find comfort in it.


16/f
hey so i have been hooking up with this guy for a couple weeks, who is alot more experenced than me, hes has fingered me a couple times and i know i should give him a hand job, im ready and everything just a little nervous. Do you think i should tell him i have never gave a hand job before or just go for it and hope for the best haha. Thanks 4 your advice in advance!!! (link)
i think you should tell him you never have given one because with my experience i always telll guys i never have and they always like start me off, help me when i need it, or just give me advice. It helps and that way he doesn't you know expect anything GREATTT.. haha goood luck and just do it girllll


ok so ive liked a guy for 3 years
just aske him if he liked me
he said no
thats not problem...
problem is weve been window painting there car
so same night he said he didnt like me
they come attack my car
i want to stop talkin to them
to get over this guy
but my friend thinks war and the guy says war now
im lost
i cant get over him if i keep talking to him
what do i do (link)
girlll the best idea is to find another guy it will most likely make him jealous. there was this guy that i liked for two years and well i dated one of his bestfriends..and goshhh did that make him jealous haha but after i broke up with his friend he realized how much he liked me really and we are not together! so things can work out and jealousy is even sometimes the answer! haha


okay there is this boy i KNOW i love. well we were going out then he broke up with me, but like i said i KNOW for a FACT that i love him. but he likes another girl. And all my friends are telling me i dont need him, but i do need him. he doesnt love me back and just every second of the day i think of him, and jsut want to be with him. but i know i cant. so what should i do, and my friends are also saying that i could get any guy. and a few boys have asked me out but i dont want them i want the one i love. so what do i do. i jsut cant get over him. he knows that i love him and he just doesnt care i guess.
so please help me .!! (link)
alrightt
i was/still am in your same situation.
i am still in love with this guy and i know he does not love me back, to make it even worse he has a girlfriend and he lives across the street from me. its horrible, but honestly the thing that helped me is really to find a new guy! it truley does/and did help me. yeah i mean of course i still wonder what if and miss him all the time but its ways better than acting all depressed all the time and bugging ur friends about it, because really all your friends want is you to be happy. trust me girl just find a new guy or you could (if you dont think you could find a new guy) try to text/email/message him and tell him how you really feel maybe he will come around. theres always hope just dont worry about it and just live your life babe.
good luck and i hope everything works outt :)


how do you make yourself do something you dont want to do? (link)
to be completley honest..JUST DO IT.
do nnot worry what anyone else thinks and do it to ur full potential. I mean come on you only live once, and if its something embarresing or something people will forgett..its not like they will judge you off of it.


How much time does it usually take to get over a broken heart? Its been one and half months, two other guy's kisses later, and I still can't get my cheating ex out of my mind. Its getting mentally exhausting to trick myself not to think about him. (link)
ohhh lord. i am/was in the same situation, so ur not alone. it has taken me 7 months and i am still not completley over it. all i can say is get a new boyfriend, because i can tell you that is defiantly the mistake i made (not getting a boyfriend when i could have.) It sucks when a guy cheats on you, its possibly the worst feeling ever, it takes time to heal. So one month is nothing girl just stay strong and try not to see him as much as possible. hope i was a little help ! :) goood luckk baby


When a guy feels you up, does he actually go inside your bra or just on the outside? And if he goes on the inside...what if your nipples get hard? Is that like not supposed to happen? Will the guys be like um....eww

Thanks in advance =P (link)
yeahhh they go inside, but if you do not want them to then just take there hand down. haha. and i mean i really do not think they will notice if ur nipple gets hard. DONT WORRY :)
justttt doooo itt..ha itss funnn girll..


I've just broke up with my boyfriend and it's official it's over. I don't want him to get with another girl but obviously it's inevitable he will. I just can't stop thinking about his hands over a girl and him "doing things". I know I'm torturing myself and I feel so sick about it. I've tried keeping busy and even when I'm at work I imagine it. All I wanted was for him to care and love me and he went for no reason. I know he isn't worth it but that doesn't make love go. I know time will only do that but how do I control the girl thing? n e suggestions? (link)
oh boy i have been in your same situation, so do not think you are alone girl. The best thing you can do is not hangout with him or be around him for a while until you are comfortable with him around OTHER girls. You also might consider a new guy? maybe. I mean it took me 8 months to get over this guy i dated for 2 years and he had a girlfriend that whole time, trust me i was pissed, but i eventually delt with it and got over it. It was very tough and believe me i had those times while i was working or something and all i would think about is him. well good luck and i hope i maybe helped a little !


i dont discharge... why not? (link)
you honestly need to see a doctor.
i mean have you had sex before or have you had ur period


I need a song thats just like a beat, liek dance party music kindof

kinda like the beat mms mms mms mms...(i hope you get what that means)over and over again

can anyone find that for me and have it so i can download it somwhere (link)
cyclone tpain and baby bash
crank dat solja boy by soulja boy
crank dat spiderman by crank squad
the heizmen by the heizmen boys
the thizzle dance by mac dre
and message me if you want more


whats the song that says like
party like a rockstar
fuck like a pornstar
..
i cant remember the rest. IT IS NOT PARTY LIKE A ROCKSTAR

i tried to look it up but noo luck (link)
alrighttt its act a fool by lil john


does anyone know any good r&b/hip-hop artists/groups that arent really known in the industry? like you know those that have like myspaces and stuff with their music. it can be someone kind of famous or not really famous at all.

preferably female artists/groups, but male artists/groups are good too.

thanks in advance! (link)
soulja boy
crank squad

they are both REALLLLLLLLY GOOOD if you like rap and hip hop


new songs pleasee like really new!
and i love good remixess thanks!! (link)
cyclone by baby bash and tpain
crank dat spiderman by crank squad
and idk if youve heard caribou lou by tech n9ne
and an old one that I LOVE is blue berry yum yum by ludacris
there you gooooo :)


Im fucking tired of this. Everythime I try and ask her why she wants to come over she doesnt say and ask if jasons gunn abe home and if i say no shes like oh my mom wont let me or something dumbb like that. And when he is home thats all she doesnt is hangg out with him.
WTF (link)
ok i dont really know the entire situation, but to me it seems like she is just using you for your brother. i would just ask her straight out, but most likely she will deny it. My opinion is if you really, really like her and want to stay friends with her then try and deal with it. If she isnt that great of a friend and you do not like her that much then just dont be friends with her. i mean you will make new and better friends, most likely ones that will not use you for your borther. sorry about your situation that is a really tough!
i hope i helped and good luck ::)


Soo did you get into a similar situation? (link)
Who is this ??
sorry haaha ive answereed alot of questions today i dont know who this is


Now i like this boy lets call him Ryan and I like another boy lets call him Jay. They are both my best guy friends.

Now ryan is often mean to me and my friends say it is because he likes me. But i think he is too mean to like me. Let me give you an example:
I walk into class greeted by a pencil in the gut that flew across the room from ryan. Then i sit at my desk only to find that ryan has changed his seating just to sit by me,again. Then as we start work on our computers he sits on the one next to me(because thats our seating arangement) and am bagered by rude and inconsiderate comments and questions. But only when he is ONLY around me. At lunch he doesn't really talk to me. Does he like Me?

Now Jay. He is soooo nice! he always cares what i say and has good things to say about everyone. He is soooo shy also. I am like the only one he talks to besides Ryan(who is his BFF) and my BFF Rachel. Now he always asks how my day is and complains about our teachers(like every 8th grader does) and i listen then do the same. He is so nice to me, and i wonder if he likes me too...

Now i am just asking if you think any of these guys like me and if I should go for one of them.

PLEASE HELP (link)
yes they both like you but in different ways haha. but i would go for the shy guy personally because guys are always shy AT FIRST around the girl they like, i mean you never know he could get more comfortable around you and be more outgoing. But the ryan guy seems really rude and you really can not change an asshole. sorry. so personally i would go for the shy guy and try and make him louder! it could work you never know! good luck deciding and i hope i maybe helped!


this summer i want to change. i want to become a better person all around. i want to gossip less and worry less about what people think about me.

i also want to be more outgoing. i have my group of friends and i usually only hang out with them. i wouldnt consider myself unpopular but im not like, the most popular girl in the school. im pretty shy which sets me back from talking to people.

i do swim team and a lot of people from school do too but im not friends with their group so i dont really fit in.

i'd also like to work on my appearence. i'm about 5'2'' and around 100 pounds. im very girly girl and prep..my hair is medium brown (thinking about getting hilights) and is a little below my shoulders...tons of layers and side bangs. my face is kinda round..if that matters and my eyes are darkkkkk brown..any suggestions for makeup or hair?


sry this is really long...but any suggestions would help lots! i rate high!! (link)
alrightt im like exactly like you so i know how you feel, except im not shy really. i gossip alot when people get me going and i am so self conciouss and i worry about what everyone thinks. bascially what you need to learn is that someone is bound to hate you if your pretty or goood at things. so i would just try as hard as possible to not care what other people think i mean im guessing your in highschool or middle school? so i mean if your in middle school whoo cares! you probably wont be friends with anyone from your middle school once you get to highschool and if your in highschool..well you only have four years and you will never see those people again. and plus highschool isnt about being the most popular or prettiest person there its really about finding out who you are and figuring out how to deal with people. so for the swim team issue be nice and talk to them occasionally but dont gossip with them because you feel thats the only thing you have to talk about..trust me dont do it! and the fact that your shy well just dont be because even the most outgoing person at your school probably is scared of something or shy around someone!
and for your appearence well for makeup go to sephora and buy this amazing bronzer called tropic tan (its a bronzer and a blush) it is so goood! and then get a good skin matching foundation and concealer. then line your bottom and top eyelids with black eyeliner and i would go with silver eyeshadow. and then go to the drugstore or walmart and get greatlash mascara by maybaline or however you spell it haa. and for your hair i always like to pull my bangs back and do the poof thing. or a high ponytail!
well i hope i helped and wasnt to confusing
good luck!




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