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time is running out
This boy & I have been flirting/messsing with eachother all school year now. Everyone can tell we like eachother but neither of us will make a serious move. I know he won't because his friends will tease and he's a little shy/immature. I'm afraid of rejection & being teased. It's the end of the year and this boy is one in a million, I like him very much. What can I do to let him know being friends isn't enough and over the summer I want to see him?
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Well, if he likes you and you like him i guess its pretty cool right? Well, I would pull him aside and ask him out . B/c if his friends are there , he might get embarrassed.
'N!cole'
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well, just say "hey, we have to hang out this summer!!" and like in a friendly way, then give him your number, and ask him for yours!! thats what i would do! :) i was always afriad of rejection too, and stuff, so i had a hard time, like yourself, and i decided to ask this guy for his screen name, after chatting with him everyweekend at a skate place where we both went, and this guy just so happened to like me too, and he is my amazing boyfriend of a year and 4 months. dont be worried, the worst thing that can happen is him say no, you know, the things that are most regreted in life are the things that you dont say. you should just go ahead, and take a chance, life is too short not to take chances, and, hey, if you dont ask, you'll never know what might have been! dont wait unitl its too late! :)
best of luck! and have a great summer!
thanks for letting me help you, and i sure hope that i did!
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-Kelc-
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call him and tell him! someone has to make a move before the summer's over this might be your only chance! ~hope it works out!~
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I've been in this situation before & you're very lucky. Being friends with eachother & flirting alot is a good sign that you like eachother. However, one of you needs to make a move. The traditional way is for guys to ask girls out but HEY this is the 21st century so ANYTHING goes. He's probably feeling the same way you are. Afraid of rejection. Even though you like him, he may not know that for sure or he may not have enough proof to be confident enough to ask you out. If you talk to him online, start a conversation about how summer is almost here and how you're gonna miss him. If he replies with missing you as well, suggest that the two of you hang out. If you don't talk online, you could always leave a friendly message in his yearbook, with your # telling him you'd love to hang out sometime. Remember to put plenty of heart's & xo's! If you need any more help, feel free to let me know!
xo♥ monty
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You just get brave and tell him so. One of you has to do it! Do it now before someone else snatches him up. :)
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there is a lot of things you can do you can just have him over and "hang out" but then tell him how you feel or you can "date" him which mean acess wiht other people too if you didnt know our you can just flatout say "hey i like you if you like me we gots to do somthing this weekend!"
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Maybe you should talk to him when like he's alone and just ask him hey, where are you going this summer that kind of things and then all will just follow you know. Don't think of rejection because you know that he likes you too. Not only that, if he'll be gone and you don't know where when classes stop then I know you'll really regret not knowing where he is and also his number.
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ok do you talk online? i think online IMing is way easier than talking in person..so i would tell him my honest feelings online..maybe say something like
: im really going to miss you ..i think over the summer we should definately hang out
dont worry about rejection because if you've been messing with him all year, of course he will want to hang out also!
his response will probably be :
:cool, or yeah, etc...then ask for his number if you dont already have it and call or talk to him online to make plans when to hang out.
if you dont have AIM...write him a note..or when you sign his yearbook or something...put ur number in with hearts or somethin and write .."call me..we should definately hang out because i would go crazy not seeing you all summer "or something
you will be fine,dont worry!
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