OKay! Don't get me wrong, I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND, but sometimes it feels like we aren't as good as we used to be. I dont' know, I mean I dont' want anything to happen to us. It's just, he's been away a lot and stuff and I mean, it feels weird, because it's not like I miss him even that much anymore. I dont' know! It is just different and I really don't like it. Please help me out. How do I relit our flame? And is this normal? I'll rate HIGH and leave FEEDBACK

I think you're at the point where you spend so much time together, you start to get tired of your partner.

I suggest you two have a "break". It usually does some good because although you're spending time away from each other, you're not officially over yet. The time away from each other should either let you know how much you miss him when you're not with him, or it will let you know you are better off breaking up. I suggest you give it lots of time though before breaking up. I'd hate for you to break up and regret it.

Just think about WHY you love him. If you can't think of why you love him or you don't feel the same about those reasons anymore, it's probably time to break up with him. It always helps to think of the long run. Would this guy be HUSBAND material? If not, don't bother wasting your time and break up with him gently.

If you decide to stay with him, don't be frustrated if you don't feel the same about him when you first fell in love. It's like a cycle...eventually you get tired or have conflict with your partner, but if you resolve it your relationship ends up even stronger. The cycle may never end, but it's worth it if you're with someone you really, really love.

Dating is all about experiencing new things, bonding with someone, and finding out what you need and want. If things don't work out, you move on and live life.